Consensual Sex: Where is the danger?
# Is your husband/wife involved in an affair or physical intimacy with someone else?
---- "They did what they did with the consent of both of them. They are Consenting Adults! Where did you see the fault?"
# The girl died while having sex with her boyfriend?
---- "Hey hey stop! I'll understand after the murder or the accident! Think 10 times before saying rape! Both of them but Consenting Adult!"
# The body of the 'mistress' of the big man has been found?
----- "Don't be afraid to blame the victim! They were consenting adults!"
Nowadays, this is the era of Consensual Sex! If two adult people agree, they can't say anything whether they have sex, sneeze, drink alcohol, or go to the toilet. Seven times sorry.
In the middle of this, sometimes one or two people will die by themselves, or be killed - see, hear, give status, go to sleep! That's all! No worries, the same story will be repeated in a few days!
I have no doubt that the concept of Consensual Sex is very important in the field of Rape and Molestation. This article is not against the basic concept of consent.
My objection is against the new trend of justifying and sanctifying Unethical work with the smoke of Consensual Sex.
If you look at it together, you will understand that even a few years ago what you thought was a very dirty thing, what you thought was harmful to society, if you look at it in the frame of 'Consensual Sex', nowadays it would not be a very 'big crime'.
Conversely, as helpless as you are, you will discover that you are actually hesitant to call 'bad' 'bad', not 'hate' properly.
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A large number of married couples are engaging in random relationships on social media. They do not have sex in many cases but have huge emotional attachments. People are not ashamed of such friendships in the virtual world. Some people swell their chests and say - "No one is being harmed!". Brahmastra is - the consent of the two. What's wrong with that?
As a parent, as a wife/husband, as a brother/sister go to protest the above! Go to the bar - be the first to catch Consensual Sex at this point! Even a child as old as your knee will attack you and say, 'We do whatever we want with the consent of two people, where is your problem?'
You will feel stupid! Feel backdated! You will read what you will argue. Neither the fear of social degradation nor the prohibition of religion will stand a chance. 'Consent of two' is everything now!
The question may even arise - with what logic would you call actions unethical?
Suppose an incident happened. He said in a simple way - "It's not right for the girl to do this" - a group will come up. Why are the victims blamed? Dharan says "boy has done great wrong" - a group will say 'he did not force! Consent is done '- Business case dismissed! You're actually going to be confused. Did they really do anything wrong? Are you overreactive? (Victim Blaming is definitely disgusting. Its context is no longer the same as the above example)
The point that people who don't see any wrongdoing in these things fundamentally miss is that sex is not just sex! Sex is a topic whose tail pulls the moral ground, the ethical boundary will come. 'What will happen to the society' this panic will come!
Those who live in the vicinity of the tannery, or those who live next to the dustbin, become accustomed to living in those places continuously. That stench doesn't smell anymore. Our situation will be like that! Society will rot, the smell will not reach the nose.
Sex with consent means that the person is safe about it. But the question of how safe society remains. So even if there is sex with consent, I, as a conscious person of society, must hate some sex. I want to believe that it is bad from the heart.
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